Moonspell earrings

I bought these earrings to go with the matching necklace. The set is really quite beautiful and they are a pretty gold so the web image does not do them justice. However, the earring backs come off very easily and the earrings fell out of my ears twice at work. So I tried new backs that I stole from other earrings I own, which helped. Also, I guess I have sensitive ears because these irritate my ears so bad that I cannot wear them anymore.